事與愿違,英語怎么說

I don't want to hurt anyone, but things go contrary to one's wishes, I always at pay no attention the injury other people's heart

Against what has been wishing for .

Things go contrary against one'e wishes.

Define
事與愿違
:
[
shì
yǔ
yuàn
wéi
]
1.
things
do
not
turn
out
as
one
wishes
例句與用法:
1.
我本想隨便商量一下,
結(jié)果事與愿違.
I
meant
it
to
be
an
informal
discussion,
but
it
didn't
turn
out
as
I
intended
(it
should).
2.
我們生活中似乎有許多事與愿違的情況。
It
seem
that
many
thing
in
our
lives
go
by
contrary.